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Talk Derby to Me

Posted on May 5, 2014

DSC_0073 The month of May brings with it some pretty neat things.

The Kentucky Derby is my particular favorite.

Fashion has always had a significant impact on the entirety of the race’s attendance and reputation.

For women, it can be a given that most will be wearing frilly, pastel dresses or their finest suits.

For men, it is just as much, if not more, of a fashion show.

(Many of which I would have no problem with dating.)

And of course, what would the Kentucky Derby be without the  hats?

Considered the “The Greatest Two Minutes in Sports,” The Kentucky Derby is a standard display of coveted Sourthern-inspired fashion.

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For this week’s post, I decided to feature my take on a popular “Derby look.”

As shown, I chose a navy Bless’ed Are The Meek dress and the floppiest of floppy hats from my favorite local boutique.

Paired with MAC red lip and Gianni Bini nude heels, this look is both fitting and versatile for all kinds of spring and summer events.

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With the hecticness that is college/ high school finals season, I hope that you all got out to celebrate this weekend’s festivities.

Check back soon for the announcement of May’s Girl of the Month.

Happy Cinco de Mayo! See you next week!

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A special thanks to Staxx and Corinne Day for their contributions to this post.

Needing a dress for an upcoming graduation or spring wedding?

Find this dress in store or on their Facebook!

Want more? I encourage you to check out my photographer’s Instagram (@corinnenday) for bloopers from this shoot. Give her a follow! Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.

As well, follow me (@laneygipson) for updates on posts and sneak peaks into each and every post.

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April’s Girl of the Month: Geena Davis

Posted on April 17, 2014

Hi friends! I wanted to start something completely new this week.

Welcome to my first ever “Girl of the Month” post.

From my best friends to girls I find on campus, each “Girl of the Month” will be showcasing their own style and personality by answering a series of questions that I will provide them.

To kick things off, I have chosen Miss Geena Davis. Geena is an Advertising and Public Relations Major from Potosi, Missouri. By the generosity of the sweet ladies at Staxx, Geena was able to pick an outfit that she felt best expressed her sense of style and fashion.

This For Love & Lemons dress is jaw dropping and I think you will soon find that she is too.

So without further adieu please meet the lovely, Geena Davis.

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What is the best advice your mother/father ever gave you? 

Fly with the eagles.

Who is your ultimate #MCM?

I can’t help myself when it comes to quirky men and dark men—aka Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Johnny Depp. Hubba hubba.

Describe your style in three words.

I think I would have to describe my style as carefree, relaxed, and sometimes edgy. There is nothing I love more than an oversized Goodwill sweater and a pair of spikey flats.

If you could trade closets with a famous person, who would it be and why?

Kendall and Kylie Jenner. Please. I love the unique mix of Kendall’s carefree California style with Kylie’s darker looks.

Please describe your most embarrassing moment. 

Hot summer day, boyfriend’s baseball game, unknowingly having melted gum on the butt of my shorts—enough said.

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What is your favorite spring trend?

I’m obsessed with white right now. White shoes, white nail polish, white everything. Other than that I’m loving graphic tanks and cloth shorts!

Who is your role model?

I have a cousin I just absolutely adore. Every breath she takes is full of life and positivity, living Christ-filled days I could only strive for.

What are the top three songs on your iPod/phone right now? 

My top three songs I can’t stop playing right now are Paper Doll by John Mayer, Plans by The Holiday Formal, and Drive by Miley Cyrus. #BANGERZ

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What is your all-time favorite movie?

My natural maternal instincts come out by saying this, but What to Expect When You’re Expecting just makes me laugh, cry, and feel ridiculously happy.

What is your dream job?

My dream job would be to work for Paramount Pictures in their Creative Advertising department. They are responsible for designing, creating, and promoting the posters and trailers for upcoming movies.

What is one thing you do that most people do not know about you? 

I love drawing and writing! In my free time I like to write poems and short stories or work on a drawing of some kind.

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Stay tuned for exciting new updates on my blog!

As always, a special thanks to Corinne Day for being a photography genius.

The girls at Staxx rock my world each and every time I go in there.

Give them a visit today!

Find us on Instagram at:

@laneygipson

@corinnenday

@shopstaxx

@geenamdxx

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7 Things to Fall in Love With

Posted on April 5, 2014


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 This is my best friend, Hannah. If you know me at all, you probably have noticed by now that we are basically inseparable. One short year ago, she was just some girl I knew in college who happened to love Jesus and people just as much as I do. Today, she undoubtedly knows me better than I know myself.

My roommates in college are two of my favorite people in the world. With Hannah being one of them, I have learned so much over this past year. I have listed out a few of the most important things that I have learned to fall in love with this year. I encourage you all to do the same.

1. Being Alone: “Don’t forget to fall in love with yourself first.” – Carrie Bradshaw

If you’re anything like me, you hate being alone. I love to have constant entertainment and someone to talk to, but sometimes we need to spend time by ourselves to be reminded of who we really are. Before you can ever give everything you are to someone, be that a friend or a boyfriend/girlfriend (etc), you have to know just what it is that makes you different from the rest. Take time alone to remind yourself of these things rather than looking to others to fill in that self esteem deficit.

2. Giving Compliments: “God didn’t ask us to just love some people; probably so we wouldn’t spend our whole lives deciding who was on the list.” –Bob Goff

There is never too much nice in the world. Some of my worst days were turned around simply by one single remark or dose of assurance said by someone out of the sheer goodness of their hearts. At this point in life, it’s vital to remember that a little bit of a good goes a long way. You can never be too generous with sweet words.

3. Saying “yes”: “Say yes and you’ll figure it out afterwards.” – Tina Fey

I can’t tell you how many lectures I have had to sit through that my parents have reiterated this simple concept, over and over again. This is the time in life where mistakes are inevitable. Overcommit yourself, stay out too late, and start taking chances that scare you…because you may not know now when, why, where, or how but you’ll sure as heck figure it out along the way.

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4. Road Trips: “Sometimes you have to get lost to find yourself again.”

 Like I have said in a previous post, the place where I spend the most time these days is in my car. In fact, in the past two weeks I have been in 5 different cities and 3 different states. Why? Because I’m a restless mess and as they say, “Adventure is out there!” Traveling far distances and leaving the country may be a bit much for most of our college-kid bank accounts, but you would be surprised at the amount of cool stuff lies just a little bit down the road. Grab some friends, throw some gas in the tank, and drive.

5. Being Disconnected: “Wherever you are, be all there.” -Jim Elliot

 I am so guilty of spending way too much time on my phone and getting distracted by things/people on social media. Heck, I think we all are these days. I’m sure if you’ve heard it once, you’ve heard it a million times. Take some time to disconnect for a little while. Put down your phone and be intentional about making the most of whatever you are doing, wherever you are, with whoever you are with.

6. Letting Go: “Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.” –Ann Landers

I have held onto way too many things in my life that just this year, I am learning to let go. Whether that be relationships, bad habits, insecurities, or memories of the past, we all have something that we are still clinging too. Drop the baggage and let yourself grow in the freedom of knowing that whatever it is, it is no longer holding you back from being all that you are called to be. Purposeful people can not get caught up clinging to the past.

7. Serving: “If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.”

What a better way to spend these years than by giving your time and energy into something that you care about. Find your passion and go find a way to get lost in it. There are an endless amount of causes and organizations that so desperately need people like you and me to go and give of their time. Time is a  precious thing, because it is the only thing that we have that we can’t get back. Go spend yours doing something for someone or something else.

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A special thanks to my guest photographer, Morgan Quigley. Girl, you rock.

These Wildfox tanks, Novella Royal pants, kimono, and jewelry can all be found at Staxx.

Shop in today or online to get hooked up with some of my absolute favorite brands with the help of my favorite Staxx ladies. As always, a super special thanks to each and every one of you.

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Friends like Hannah are hard to come by. In fact, her humble heart will probably get hate me for even giving her this much of a spotlight. But while I’m at it, I’m going to go ahead and throw in this extra picture to show y’all how much of a babe she really is. Sorry Han 🙂

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Good Intentions

Posted on March 27, 2014

DSC_0025I used to keep a stash of peanut butter crackers in my glove box knowing that it was likely that I would run into a hungry homeless man or woman on the corner while I was out driving through town or running errands after work.

One particularly hot, summer’s day I was driving home from the pool when I noticed a homeless man standing at the end of the highway exit I was approaching. Cars in front of me casually ignored his cardboard hunger plea and drove on past with each green light. As I inched closer, I grabbed a pack of crackers from my glove box, wrapped a $5 bill I had lying on the dash around it, and fastened it together with a silly band I had hanging around my rearview mirror. Slightly proud of the “care package” I had assembled, I anxiously awaited each changing light in hopes of making his day.

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I called out to the man as he began to walk further down the street in hopes of finding better luck at a slower intersection. As the man turned around and began approaching my car to take the crackers I had held out the window, the light turned green and with a line of honking cars waiting impatiently behind me, I had no choice but to chuck the crackers in his general direction and be on my way.

Unfortunately in this instance, “his general direction” translated to “I have never thrown a package of crackers harder at an elderly, homeless man in my entire life.”

Hitting the man square in the face, the crackers did not alleviate this man from any pain or hunger, but rather inflicted a very probable black eye and a newfound need of ice and a bottle of aspirin.

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There is a very unlikely chance I will ever have the “opportunity” to feel as much guilt and horror as I did in that moment, ever again.

Ask anyone that knows me, and I would bet ya they would side with me in saying that I would never intentionally throw a package of crackers, wrapped in a $5 bill and a silly band at an elderly, homeless man’s face on the corner of Sunshine and Highway 65 in Springfield, Missouri in the middle of summer 2011.

Maybe summer 2010.

Anyways, my point is that in that moment I had the purest of intentions. This was the exact opportunity I had been hoping for since the day I placed those darn crackers in my glove box. As you can see…things didn’t go quite as I had hoped.

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As you might have noticed, I took kind of a blogging hiatus the past couple months.

Was that originally the plan? Eh, no not really but hey…I’m back.

 I have every intention of getting back on a weekly schedule to share life, style, and laughs with each of y’all once again and I hope you will join with me to do just that.

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For those of you who are wondering, I’ve looked for that man on every street corner and behind every cardboard sign I’ve passed around town since that day.

Last week I saw him. Eye patch and all.

Just kidding.

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As always, a dear and special thanks to Miss Corinne Day for these pictures and for teaching me to fall in love with Missouri, time and time again.

Additional outfit information can be provided as requested.

Dress: Baglady Boutique

Kimono: Nordstrom

Shoes: Target

Ring: Samantha Wills at Staxx

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A Letter to My 15-Year-Old Self

Posted on December 16, 2013

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If I could write a letter to 15-year-old me, there are just a few things I would say.

 

They say time flies, and this letter is a testament to just how true this is. After reading through the countless journal entries I wrote from Freshman-Sophomore year, I was overwhelmed by all of the things I know now, that I wish have known back then.

 

Dear 15-year-old Laney,

I have just a few things to say to you, and trust me when I say these things are important. So sit back, relax, and try your very hardest to put down your phone for just a minute and listen.

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Let me break this down for you:

 

Girls: This weird stage of competition you have drowned yourself in will soon be over and you will realize that it is all a waste of time. Money has a weird way of creating divisions. Use what you have to bless others, rather than flaunt your own. Girls will be mean. Gosh, they will be vicious. Don’t let the opinions of man keep you awake at night. There will be fights and trust me, I know how much you hate conflict. There will be times when you think you’ve completely lost a friend, but don’t worry the ones that will prove themselves true will still be around even today. Heck, you live with one of them. (Get seriously excited about that.) Be a friend to everyone, regardless of clique or “status.” By the way, get over that whole thing really fast. Build others up and let your friends know how much they matter. Maybe if you tell them now, they won’t go searching for their worth in dangerous habits later on. Oh, but when they do (sorry, but it’s nearly inevitable) stand by them. You’ll make your fair share of your own kind of mistakes later on. Spend more time with the ones that truly care for you, because you will soon realize that the innocence you have in this part of life will be something you can never get back once it’s gone. Laugh at the hard times and embrace each other through the heartaches, the bad grades, and the mistakes. People will let you down in the real world, but while you’re here…you might as well make it worthwhile.

 

Sports: Coaches will be coaches. The good, the bad, and the ugly will build you up, tear you down, and kick you while you’re there if you let them. Fight back. Do. Not. Give. Up. Those morning practices may not seem worth it now, but I would give almost anything to be in that locker room lacing up those shoes one more time. Appreciate the tough love and the relationships you will build with your teammates. Embrace the long nights you spend together on the buses back from games, and ask each other the hard questions. These girls are your family. Together you will grow, love, and laugh your way through school, so forget the games and the things you all will say when you are upset, and allow this to be the greatest time in your life. Push through the feelings of being “burnt out” and just play. Life doesn’t give you another four years like these ever.

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Boys: This year, you will start the greatest, longest, and hardest emotional roller coaster I hope you ever have to go through. You will love more, hurt more, and feel more than you ever have. You will learn lesson after lesson about who you are, who he is, and what you two can be together. The boy you turn down for him…well I’ll just let you know how that goes later. Very soon, you will experience heartbreak for the first time in your life. You will cry yourself to sleep and question God and his purpose for this time. You will soon realize your fault in investing so much feeling, time, and energy into this relationship and neglecting others while doing so. Silly girl, don’t you know you’re a freshman? You have so much life left to live…and don’t worry he will have your heart for another 4 years…it is not worth crying about now. I look back and want to tell you more, but I like the way things turned out. You’ll later realize things you wish would have been different, but when it comes down to it I can’t help feeling like I wouldn’t change a thing. So…I’m going to let you live this one out.

 

Family: Please spend more time with them. Love on your siblings more than you love on anyone else. As you experience more of what life has to offer day after day, they are watching your every move. Use precious language when speaking to them. Shower them with compliments and serve them, as I now know that the world will do everything but. Make home their favorite place to be. When asked to drive them all over town and shuttle them like a taxi driver, grin and bear it. These times in the car are ones that you will wish for on the hard days when all you want is home. Just when you think they will be young forever, you will suddenly turn around one day and realize that you all have grown up. Laugh at the stupid things they do and embrace them when they mess up. Patiently wait for them to see your point of view, and understand that you can be wrong too. They will mess up. You will get mad. They will hurt your feelings. But most of all, they will be your best friends. Practice confidence. Walk humbly. Display weakness. Embrace change. Encompass everything they need in a big sister, but know that one day you will be the one leaning on them when the days get tough. You will learn more valuable lessons from them than they ever will from you. They have more love for you than you will ever understand. They are your teammates. You are stuck with each other. Do not ever take that for granted. As for Mom and Dad, never miss a chance to let them know you appreciate them. Watch how Dad loves Mom and look for a boy who is just as stubborn as he. Mimic his work ethic and watch how he loves the Lord. Mom will be your best friend for the rest of your life. She will drop anything to spend time with you and they will both go to great lengths to make your every dream come true. She will hold you when you cry through breakups and you will pick each other off the floor when you can’t stop laughing. And above all else, listen to what they have to say. You will never like hearing the words, “I told you so,” but they will say it…time and time again.

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As for life, start by dreaming bigger. Understand that after these four years of worrying you still won’t know what you want to be or whom you want to be with. You will experience more in this period of your life than you ever thought imaginable. Love on people. Go out of your way to spend time with the friends and family you care about. Laugh more, eat less, and don’t hold yourself to such unrealistic expectations. Read, read, read, and soak in the lessons and stories you hear from your elders. Keep an open mind. Share the deep stuff and be vulnerable to accountability. Stop trying to take control, and let God do His thing. First and foremost, fall in love with the Lord before you ever try to fall in love with anyone else. The world will soon prove itself to be a messy, messy place, but do not let your standards be swayed. Put your phone down. Be in the moment. Get involved. Write every day. Stop comparing yourself. Learn to cook. And get ready, because you will one day be sitting here…completely surrounded by the ones you love. You will have the best friend anyone could ever imagine, a family who supports your every move, a school you love, and a faith so sincere that makes life so sweet. Because when it all comes down to it, that is really all that matters.

 

XOXO,

 

Your 20-year-old Self

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 Special thanks to Miss Corinne Day for braving the cold for these pictures. Without you, this would not be possible.

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Free

Posted on October 28, 2013

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They say when you are traveling, you are either running from something or towards something.
Easy to say, incredibly difficult to admit.
In my case, I could give reason for both.
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I never walk out the door to leave for a trip the same person as I do when I walk back in.
It’s a goal, it’s a challenge, and it has become inevitable.
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I think it would be fair to say that I have never been bound by any unnecessary rules or restrictions. Growing up at home I had a curfew, responsibilities, and expectations to uphold in my school work and my extra curriculars. All of these were put in place by my parents to guide me and help to grow me into the person I am today. Very rarely did I ever try to push these boundaries or fail to pay consequences for stepping outside of these rules and expectations.
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After all, it seemed like my greatest restraint was not them but rather myself.
I laugh when I think about who I am today compared to who I was a year, even 6 months, ago. Whether it be due to time or circumstances, I am not at all the girl I used to be. In fact, so much so that I almost don’t know who I am anymore.
And that’s the part I love most.
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I’ve always been one for plans and assurance.
These days, I’m learning to dwell in quite the opposite.
I’ve given up trying to map out every detail of my life, but instead have let the map detail my life.
Every adventure leads me to understand a little bit more of myself and who I want to be. Every wrong turn, every bad experience, and every bit of opposition I have faced while doing so, has shown me the same.
I trade a little bit of my heart in for a little piece of myself at every destination.
And I have never been happier.
I have never laughed, never cried, never sang, never danced, never lived more in my life.
The person who sits here writing this post is no longer confined by the girl I once was.
I have been set free.
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A special thanks to Corinne Day who rocked this shoot on her iPhone.
Top & Leggings: BCBGMaxAzria
Necklace: Forever 21
Shoes: Target

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Blazers & Bean Burritos

Posted on October 2, 2013

IMG_2909Let’s recap, shall we?

Tonight: I just got done chucking a Taco Bell burrito at my best friend all for the sake of a good Snapchat.

In celebration I accidentally burned not one, but two bags of popcorn.

Yesterday: I took a friend I met on Tinder to a talent show at a college neither of us attend. My best friend, Hannah, tagged along to support a “mutual” friend who I met just briefly this summer while standing in a hot, sweaty field trying to take a giant staff picture. His performance involved his roommate, 1 beach ball, 2 tutus, 0 shirts, and “Turn Around Bright Eyes.” I also sat on a wasp.

Monday Night: I went on a nature hike with Hannah all for the sake of a good Instagram picture and the chance to model strut down the boardwalks aka runways at the Nature Center.

Sunday Night: Mario Cart N-64 Party in our apartment.

(I burned the cookies we were supposed to eat.)

Saturday Night: I rescued my sister from the dock in fear of a looming “mountain lion,” (actual small house cat.) I then drove around with my brother while he wore a Hilary Clinton mask and I sported a corresponding horse mask. We made a young child cry & two grandparents nearly have a heart attack due to overwhelming laughter.

(All while singing, “Wrecking Ball” at the top of our lungs.)

Friday Night: Hannah and I road tripped it down to Fayetteville (a 2.5 hour drive) to stay for hardly an hour and then come right back.

Why? Because we could. 

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If you haven’t taken the time to laugh at yourself today, please join with me.

Do I look like Ellen DeGenerous + Snoop Dog in these pictures? Maybe. But hey, that’s okay. In fact, in the latest Glee Episode, Kurt Hummel tried to steal my look:

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Life is way more fun when you let go of the concept of being perfect all of the time.

Making memories, falling to the ground in laughter, and chucking 7-layer burritos at your best friend is far more fun than be “normal.”

Maybe I don’t sleep a whole lot and happen to procrastinate the heck out of every homework assignment given to me, but I love every single minute I spend being ridiculous with those I love.

That’s what life is all about.

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In fashion and in life, take risks.

Be bold. Be powerful.

Be ridiculous. Be spontaneous.

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Join me this fall by adding Menswear inspired looks and inspirations into your closets. This suit is one of my favorite pieces from BCBGMAXAZRIA’s new collection.

A special thanks to my beautiful photographer, Chloe Robinson. Miss you already!

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Morning Metals

Posted on September 25, 2013

“My momma told me there’d be days like this”

We’ve all heard it before.

Today was one of those days.

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Wake up.

Wash face.

Fix breakfast.

Spend time in my bible/prayer journal.

Pick out outfit.

Do hair.

Put on makeup,

Brush teeth.

Grab bags.

Head to class/work.

We all have our same little systematic routines that we start our mornings off with.

But sometimes, things don’t go quite as planned.

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How many of us wake up each morning grumbling about it being too early, too cold, too hot, etc. etc?

 “Gosh, I don’t want to go to class/work.”

“What I would do to sleep in…”

“This test/class is going to stink.”

“My day is going to be never-ending.”

“When can I take a nap?”

 And the list goes on and on…

Before long, these thoughts set the pace and define my attitude for the day ahead.

Just admit it, we all do it.

It seems like an inevitable trap, but what if you committed to starting your mornings a little bit differently..

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Those first few moments in the morning are vital to the remainder of your day.

Whether you start yours at 5 AM or a solid 10:30, the same rules still apply.

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Smile.

Remind yourself of the free gift of another day.

Spend time with Jesus.

Give thanks.

Expect wonderful things to happen.

Accept change knowing everything happens for a reason.

Set daily goals.

Challenge yourself.

Don’t sweat the small things.

Plan ahead.

Commit yourself to serving others.

Pledge yourself to giving the day your all.

 And last  but not least, take a deep breath.

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6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Phillipians 4:6-7

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Sometimes the smallest changes can make the biggest differences.

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Sweater: Rodi Boutique

Jeans/Shoes/Necklace: Target

Special thanks to the beautiful Chloe Robinson for being my photographer this week!

Like her page on Facebook here!

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Tigers on a Gold Leash

Posted on September 14, 2013

Hi dolls.

This week we are switching things up just a bit.

My best girl, Hannah Heinzler, and I teamed up with Corinne Day to create a video of some of our favorite fall looks.

Please feel free to laugh, judge, and hopefully be inspired by what we came up with!

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Outfit information available at request.

SUPER special thanks to Staxx for making this post possible. Find these styles and much more online or in stores today!

Go to 417mag.com/bestof to vote for them as one of 417’s Bests!

 

 

 

 

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Just As You Are

Posted on September 1, 2013

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Can I be honest with you?

It has been a really heinous week.

My planner was covered with countless “To-Do” items and laced with various appointments, interviews, workouts, and scheduled quality time with friends.

It was a beautiful, hectic mess leaving me exhausted and emptied at the end of every day.

I quickly became reliant on the affirmation and approval of those around me to continue on with my task list.

I placed a reason for approval behind everything that I did, whether that was myself, a person, or a goal that I established for the present or the future.

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My room became a sure testament of my fight for outward approval as my closet, makeup, and various hair products were scattered all across my desk and floor. My school readings were in a messy pile next to my laptop, binders, notebooks, and countless syllabi full of expectations. My blankets and pillows were tossed “neatly” into a mound on my bed as I promised to return to them at some point or another at the end of the day. And last but not least, my kitchen was scattered with leftover cereal bowls, granola bar wrappers, and cookie trays from late-night movie parties (a scene my trainer and my mother would not be happy about).

But even still, it was just as much a beautiful, hectic mess.

I recapped the day’s activities each night before going to bed, as most of us do, and questioned what could have gone better and smiled about the things that simply couldn’t have.  Last night as I was sitting down to think over the total sum of recapped days, I laughed heartily at my apartment and the person I had let myself become.

On the outside, I was dying for approval. I sought to look a certain way, say all the right things, and fly through my schedule of daily “to-do’s” with a satisfied “done-did” attitude.

But when it came down to it, my inner self was exhausted and an utter mess.

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I can’t possibly be the only one walking in these shoes.

We all search way too hard, way too long, and way too often for something that we won’t allow ourselves to ever attain.

There will always be a level of approval yet to be met or a person that we just can’t sway.

And sometimes, our greatest battle for approval is the one against ourselves.

So stop.

Just stop.

Remember where your true approval comes from and know that His love and His acceptance is unconditional.

Remind yourself that the things in this life are fleeting and will be gone just as soon as you are.

Take time this week to take a step back from wordly desires and man-made expectations.

And above all else, smile knowing that you are more than enough just as you are.

“You is kind. You is smart. You is important.”

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Special thanks to the ladies at Staxx and Miss Corinne Day for making this post possible.

Sweater: Wildfox Couture

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